Wanting to change a person, regardless of whether it is your mother, your father, your friends or your partner, is a mistake and a waste of time, although it can be achieved a little more in our way, but you have to know how
The courtship stage is one of the most beautiful that couples live, as it is the way in which two beings know their lives a little more in depth, their tastes, interests, hobbies but also their defects, generally dating is sharing all kinds of experiences, whether good or bad, until one of the two decides to end the relationship or take the next step, which is to start a family.
When the couple decides to commit to marriage they face a great challenge, which is to live together, at first it is common for everything to be like a fairy tale, however, one of the most important things that they must work on and understand is that both are a team that love each other, support each other, communicate and respect each other at all times, since if there is a network of support and collaboration, it is very likely that their survival will be favored.
One of the most common mistakes women make is wanting to change their partner when they realize that those "little defects" that they had when they were dating are a real headache today, however, they adopt wrong attitudes that Rather than saving the relationship, they can lead to a total breakdown.
Demands and claims. When the couple decides to live together they should not forget that one of their commitments is to be faithful and help each other, however, it seems that usually the man forgets about it, and for the most part they are unfaithful, in addition to demarcation or they cooperate very little with the responsibilities of the home and the care of the children, which triggers lawsuits that are full of demands and claims.
Through ultimatums, deadlines or threats, women are very given to doing this type of thing when they feel that the situation has become unbearable, and as a way of putting pressure on their partner they do this type of thing where they run the risk of that the man in a fit of courage ends up taking him at his word.
Another wrong way in which women try to change their husband is through direct criticism of his person, especially what bothers you that he does or not do when he is at home or with you, in addition, insisting on a man about the same you make him "tire" mentally, and end up doing two things, or ignore you or make reality what you imagine he does, for example, be unfaithful.
Comparing him in a negative way with other men is a low blow to his ego, pride and self-esteem because in some way you are constantly disapproving of him, it does not matter if you do it in public or in private, and finally, something that extremely annoys them is that you assume the role and not the wife in the relationship, so if you were thinking that you were on the right path, you’d better change direction.