These are some of the situations that although you think your partner can give them to you, having them depends only on you
One of the most wonderful sensations that we find in life is love. When we are next to the loved one we think that we can achieve anything. However, there are some things that the love of your life can never give you and that only depends on you to get them.
In most cases we believe that when we are with the love of our life everything will be perfect and that person will provide us with many positive emotions, without taking into account that these only depend on us.
achieve full happiness
You must keep in mind that happiness is not a state of mind that is always present, nor should you think that it will always be with you when you find your soulmate. A person can be happy for a moment, even days, and not the next, and that’s not a bad thing. It is part of life itself. That is why you should not expect to be happy all the time next to that person. It depends on you. It is a very heavy burden for your partner to give you happiness.
have confidence in yourself
As much as your partner tells you how much he loves you and shows it to you, this will not prevent you from having doubts about yourself. In general, many fears arise in us, such as that our partner is going to change us for another or that love will end overnight. You will only achieve self-confidence if you work hard, increase your self-esteem by recognizing your weaknesses, accepting them and making all your defects take a positive turn.
understanding of pain
Throughout our lives we are experiencing pain, be it physical or emotional. That is why it is a huge mistake to think that being next to someone who loves you will free you from suffering. You must bear in mind that the pain must be felt, understood and overcome, but you will only achieve this by yourself, with your own effort and not by someone who fills your emotional gaps.
full satisfaction
At the beginning of the relationship you will have many positive emotions and you will think that they are full, however this situation will not be constant. In all relationships there are moments of dissatisfaction, especially when you have high expectations of your partner. Keep in mind that it is not the obligation of any person to comply with everything that the other expects of him. Your partner is not going to provide you with full satisfaction.