Learning to get out of a relationship in which you were not valued is complicated, but it is possible to conquer time and above all with self-esteem, which is key.
Self- esteem saves lives, because thanks to that little thing we call self-esteem, we can recover from breakups and stormy relationships in which we were severely hurt, emotionally speaking, when we make use of our self-esteem, it is easier to recover from a resounding emotional fall.
When you realize that you have yourself and that you can only get ahead, it is like a matter of empowerment that coincidentally makes us more attractive, more capable of achieving what we set out to do and curiously, more irresistible to our ex, although on the other On the other hand, it allows us to make visible that now that person does not suit us.
The one who sees his mistake at that moment is the ex-partner who, as we had already talked about before, does not realize what he had, until he sees him lost, that’s when he will miss you and value you as he did not do before and It is when you must be too intelligent to know how to reject a person who previously saw you as insignificant and small.
When does all this that sounds like a Hollywood movie happen? When you learn to love yourself and understand your value , when you stop being codependent on a relationship that did not bring you anything good or new, that on the contrary, made you unhappy and humiliated you, then the path that you trace will be the one that you will follow after a difficult relationship.
The following should be clear to you: you do not need anyone to hurt you every day of your life, instead of giving you happiness and love, sometimes we allow ourselves to be blinded by someone who speaks nicely to us and we do not reflect that this person is not the indicated, for various attitudes that hurt you and that show everything but love.
It is not easy to get out of a stage in which you dedicated all your feelings to a person that you believed was the right one for you, it is often said that time is the best cure, nobody talks to you about patience, or that it is a extremely painful process that yes, requires these two things that sometimes we do not have.
If you are patient and above all, you discover your value as a woman, recovery will be faster, but in addition to living in peace and giving yourself a new opportunity in love, you will be able to see from afar who you left, it is not about revenge, it is only You will make it known that the one who will miss, will be him, when he realizes that you do not need him .