Physically you can be attracted to many, you can also have a long list of suitors, but the soul and the heart do not feel comfortable with just anyone.
The first things you can like about a person are their eyes, their hair, their height, their smile, what you can see with the naked eye and that person can reciprocate by telling you that they are also attracted to you, and that is that you physically fit in with whoever they are. , but it is very difficult for you to feel comfortable with someone who speaks nicely to you at first, because the soul does not vibrate with just anyone.
You can like it physically, feel attraction to that person, and it is that physically you fit in with anyone, with whom I propose, with whom you choose, but the soul does not vibrate with anyone, that only happens when you really feel calm and safe when side of him or her , that’s when you understand that you no longer want to separate, that you no longer want to continue looking.
You can only like him, but not cause more feelings, it can make you laugh for a moment, but then there is no more, there is no desire to see him, to listen to him, to want to know him much more, and that is that his thing is mere physical attraction , but there is no attraction from the mind, there is no attraction from the bottom of your heart and that is what makes the big difference.
You can meet someone and seem like the most beautiful person you’ve ever seen, feel attracted by that look, by that laugh, by the way they talk and treat you, but you still don’t love them, you have to meet them, let time pass until little by little you discover what is in his mind, his way of thinking and even acting.
That’s when you can get a big surprise, find out if you really like him for something else, to conquer and have a nice relationship or simply attracts you to have a good time and that’s it, but not to seek to plan a future together, the attraction and love are two different things that you have to learn to differentiate.
Ask yourself what you really feel for that person, if you only like him because of his appearance or if you really fell in love with his good humor, his virtues, his defects, how nice he is to you, if you feel that he your heart wants to come out when he’s close to you, if you feel safe when he’s with you, if you feel those butterflies in your stomach that everyone talks about.
The soul does not vibrate with anyone, so learn to listen to your heart and recognize when you are really in love and when it is just something temporary, a simple attraction, in this way you will avoid deluding the other person and in the process you will also be protecting yourself to you so as not to suffer disappointments,