Don’t become a slave to love, don’t stay alone out of fear

Don't become a slave to love, don't stay alone out of fear

Do not stay tied to a love that does not suit you and that is not the one you deserve, get out of that relationship that does not give you complete happiness and free yourself by being yourself

Take back the reins of your life, it’s never too late to start over, to get away from that person who instead of joining you is subtracting you every day, don’t stay clinging to a relationship for which you already gave everything, for which You already tried to make it come out afloat and nothing changes for the better, don’t become a slave to love , don’t stay subject to someone who loves you one day and doesn’t the next, don’t stay alone out of fear.

Get out of there, from that place where they have caused you to cry, insecurities, lack of self-love, where they have consumed you so much that sometimes they have left you without strength and wondering what you are doing wrong, do not become a slave of a love that is not worth it, do not stay alone for fear of not being able to alone or not finding someone who adores you for who you are and for how much you have to give.

Do not stay next to someone who does not know what he wants and therefore does not know how to act with you, how to treat you and is only wasting your time, do not waste your life next to someone who does not care if you you stay with him forever or you decide to leave, he is not the only being in the world and it is not your responsibility to stay and support him, stay away if you consider that it is the best for you.

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You fell in love, you saw him as the most spectacular being on Earth, the most perfect Prince Charming that your eyes had never seen before, but that prince with a crown gradually became an ogre , the one who instead of telling you a " I love you" he rubbed your mistakes without seeing his faults, your defects no longer seemed insignificant to him, now he brought them up and reproached them.

That love story began to turn into a horror movie, but in spite of all that you are still hesitating whether to separate, get away, get out of there or try one more time because you hope that one day it will change and open your eyes so that He realizes the great woman he has by his side, but that will hardly happen and you will only be more disappointed, you no longer believe false illusions.

Where you are not happy you must leave, it does not matter if you have been together for 10 years or a month, what is broken cannot be repaired in the same way, if you try to hit it it becomes weak or simply will not be the same again, no matter how much time you wasted Neither are those plans that they had and that they made at the beginning, because they are no longer going to materialize when you are the only one who wants to move forward.

Even if your heart breaks because you thought he was the love of your life, don’t stop, let him go and you get out of there without thinking that they could come back later, you’d better accept that yours is over and it was for the best, because You will not continue to be a slave to a romance that only hurt you, manipulated you and taught you what it was like to cry with sadness, frustration and anger, but never made you know true love.

For once in your life, be selfish with the world, with it and with everyone , thinking first of yourself, of your feelings, of your heart, of your dignity, and leave where they don’t value you and where they already told you "I’m going to change " many times, but the actions have never come, love yourself more than the rest and you will see that you will begin to heal, to transform yourself and to mature much more in love.

Stop being a slave to a love that does not value you, that does not understand you, that does not listen to you, that does not take care of you, that does not treat you as you deserve, get away from someone who has only caused tears running down your cheeks and go away in search of your own happiness, do not be afraid to think that you will not find anyone who wants to be with you, because your better half is out there waiting for you, you just have to wait for fate to unite them.