Do not get carried away by your impulsiveness when your children misbehave, you can cause them emotional damage, avoid doing the following actions
If you are one of the parents that at the moment that one of your children commits a mischief or misbehaves, you react with your liver and reprimand him in a harsh way and if you are not in a good mood, you end up doing something that you should not do, remember that the children keep everything that the parents do for them and for them.
We know that reprimanding your children is a way of setting the limits of what is allowed and what is not, but there are certain actions that parents should avoid, as they could harm the child’s mental health and development; We are not telling you not to scold them, but there are ways for everyone.
Most of the "bad" behaviors of children have several causes and parents act with little patience , even hitting, which results in a fracture in their development as people; As parents we should avoid doing the following while rebuking our children.
Don’t lose patience . The first thing you should do is be patient, you are not going to fix anything if you lose your temper, if both of you are in an irritated mood, it is better to calm down first and talk later.
Don’t humiliate them. The worst thing you can do to your child is humiliate him, say offensive words, you hurt children more with your words than with a blow and you generate more insecurities due to these words.
Mark the limit without offenses . It is very important that children understand that it is not good to misbehave, but they will not do so when you tell them to yell and reluctantly, on the contrary, it can be counterproductive.
Be strong. If you are going to discipline him, let it be by talking, be firm if you punish him and make him understand that what he did is not right, an important part of the discipline is that you explain to them why what they did they should not do again.
Do not let yourself be influenced by third parties . The education of your children is only up to you, do not allow anyone to influence your decisions about how you discipline them, do not compare what other families experience.