If your little one tends to scream, tantrum, cry and manipulate it, it is the sign that he is rude
All parents want their children to be respectful, polite and happy, however on some occasions the child’s behavior is not what is desired and they become a person who tends to tantrums and manipulation. Now as you can tell that your child is a spoiled, these are some signs
First of all, you should not feel guilty if you feel that your child is ill-mannered, remember that parents are often wrong, however the most important thing is to correct their behavior as they go and move on.
Many times we forget that children learn and understand everything perfectly, it is only a matter of being seen as people with understanding and that they are treated that way. Only then will they do everything to become what is expected of them.
Now, you must be honest and answer:
Does your child throw tantrums a lot?
Has he embarrassed you in front of others for his behavior or responses?
When you speak to him, does he obey you or completely ignore you?
Nothing seems to him, he likes nothing and it seems that he is always angry
Do you have to offer him something, threaten him or beg him to do what you ask him to do?
In case you have answered yes to two or more questions, then your baby is a spoiled child. Now, all is not lost, since first of all you must set clear limits. Establish rules that must be discussed and accepted by mutual agreement.
Never give in to the tantrum or manipulation
Without yelling, much less hitting, you must make it very clear that things are going to be done when and how you say it. You should practice this everywhere, both on the street and at home. Be firm with your directions and ignore the drama and continue with your activities.
Comply with all established rules
Remember that the rules are to be respected, so you should think about it before putting any and think that you should also follow them.
Give him a homework assignment
When the child knows and above all feels that he can be trusted with something, he will try to do it well and his self-esteem will increase. Give him a chance to feel useful.
Teach by example
Show the attitude you want them to have. If he sees you yelling or angry he will think it is a normal attitude. Remember that you are the best example and children are a sponge apart from excellent imitators.
And the best advice of all: be patient and improve your habits. In less than you think the behavior of your children will improve radically.