Relationships do not have to be synonymous with slavery and put aside your dreams and goals, whoever loves you will support you to achieve them
When the couple’s relationships are genuine and they know about respect and mutual support, it is easy for both of them to achieve their dreams and goals because they have the support of the one who loves them at all times, without conditioning them by the fact of being boyfriends or husbands, A healthy relationship has among its characteristics to provide this support when they need it.
But what happens when to realize your dreams you must first see for your relationship and what your partner wants? You do not have to flip a coin to choose because that person should know how important it is that you realize your dreams even if it is not included in them, you deserve someone who motivates you to pursue your dreams
Regardless of whether distance plays an important role in meeting these goals, you should know that if the love they feel for each other is strong and solid, it does not have to become a threat to their relationship that they distance themselves so that one of The two of you can achieve that long-awaited dream.
At the end of the day when they finally achieve it, both will be happy for their partner and will be able to enjoy the honeys of success together, whoever loves you will only want the best for you and your well-being, they will want to see you happy and fulfilled, they will feel proud of what that you have achieved and this also applies in reverse because surely your partner will feel happy to realize their own dreams.
We have already talked about affective responsibility and how it can influence couples, when this responsibility is reciprocal you are in the right place and with the right person, because both seek to be happy together but also for both to be happy individually, this complements their development and personal satisfaction.
When your relationship depends on sacrificing your dreams, unfortunately you are with the wrong person, because it is causing you to lose a fundamental part of your personal development, in time the reproaches will come and that dissatisfaction will end up being a trigger for the relationship to start to wear out.
The most important thing in a relationship is that with the love that they have, they support each other with respect to their dreams and goals , when both are proud and satisfied, they are sure that their love will have been strengthened for the better.