Do not feel pressured for having reached 30 single, without children and without any commitment, on the contrary, you are a very lucky woman, because life is preparing something good and better that will come into your life.
Did you reach the threshold of the third floor free of sentimental commitments and without children? Don’t worry, don’t feel pressured because all your sisters, cousins and friends are already making their lives in a relationship, while you move forward freely, staying single at 30 means that something good and better will come, destiny has something surprising for you that you will love when it is presented to you.
"Spinster", "you will stay to dress saints", "they are all married", "the train is passing you", these and many more phrases are surely part of the sermons you receive daily, but over time you learn To have them slip instead of echoing your thoughts, remaining single at 30 means that something good and better will come into your life.
Do not look at other people’s watches, go at your own time, go at your own pace and under your own plans to fulfill your dreams that you already have established, because it is your life, not that of others, therefore you decide, when, where and with who you relate to to commit to someone and think about the future, but in the meantime, you enjoy that beautiful freedom that you enjoy.
Let no one torment you with the idea that if you did not turn 30 within a relationship and with a family, then your life has already been ruined and you will be left alone, being the lady of a thousand cats, you have no expiration date to find the one love and be happy, you go at your own time, also there is nothing wrong, continuing without commitment on the third floor only augurs that the best is yet to come.
Singleness is the most wonderful stage that life gives you, where you find a purpose, in which you understand and reflect on your mission on Earth, where your "inner self" is revealed to you, it is where you understand that someone will arrive. Make it worthwhile, at this age you are already very mature and you know that you don’t want to waste your time with just anyone, that’s why not everyone enters your heart.
When you reach 30 and single, you have already passed and experienced a process in which you love yourself so much, that you will not allow anyone to hurt you, you do not regret being alone, because you know that sometimes a little loneliness is what Better to find balance, peace and harmony in your environment, you value yourself more by all those who in the past did not know how to do it.
You are preparing to receive something spectacular, you will only accept that a wonderful person take you out of singleness, because if it is someone who says they love you half, they do not know what they want with you and they doubt what they feel, then you will not allow them to be part of your life, you already understood that you need someone to add to you and not to subtract you, not someone who, even being with you, makes you feel alone.
Until you feel comfortable being alone, you will never know if you are choosing someone for love or loneliness, so do not worry, enjoy your singleness, learn to love yourself, and learn to hope, that something beautiful is what Fate is preparing you, something for which one day you will say was worth all the waiting and many life lessons.
Being single, you realize the immense peace you receive by being alone with yourself, you understand that you do not depend on anyone to be happy, it only depends on you feeling strong, ready to get up every day and improve yourself, when the time came. Then someone will put you on the road, without ties, without pressure and very safe not to make you happy, but to complement that emotional state.