Women, after a breakup, have the idea that everyone is the same and that none is worth it, but one can come along who makes a difference
It is common that after a breakup, where the man who was with you hurt you, you do not want to know anything about love and much less about men , for you they are all the same, none is worthy of making you believe in love again and you have a bad concept about them, it’s normal, one of them broke your heart.
What happens is that you have a terrible reference to them, just one was enough to make you lose faith and say that they are all the same , that none could make you happy, you become this hard and inflexible person who, in an extremist sense, hates the men and nothing can change your mentality, not even that idea that you have created… for now.
It is only enough to meet a man who refutes every thought you have about men, for you to realize that if there are good examples of men who are not the jerk of your ex, how is he going to prove it? Simple, with his feelings and his way of acting with you and with other people.
A man can teach you that not everyone is the same , through an attitude full of affection, attention and respect, seeking your well-being; but we start in stages: this man who you have found perhaps in the most unexpected situation, will know that you have to go with careful feet, because you are hurt from a past relationship.
He will give you space to heal at your own pace and at the same time he will try to accompany you in that process in a way that you will appreciate it, when he notices you better, that subtle but effective conquest will begin and without you seeing it coming, he will have won your heart and that love that you refused to feel again.
Little by little, that man will prepare the ground for you to feel comfortable with the idea of love , he will be your friend, your cloth of tears and after a while, when you consider that you are ready, you will begin to see him with others. eyes, that man is special to you and you didn’t even realize why.
When you are finally ready to love again, you will realize how much he did for you to learn that not everyone is the same and that there are men who are worth it , do not close the doors to love, because even if you doubt it, your heart will heal and you can love who really deserves it.