If you want to succeed in love and conquer your crush, then you must avoid certain attitudes that will only make him run away from you.
If you want to conquer that crush with which you already visualized yourself walking hand in hand, then you must know very well how to act so as not to spoil everything, never consider adopting these attitudes that only take away from you the boy you like, scare him and He will end up running away from you, so that that does not happen to you, take note.
When you start to fall in love with someone, what you want is to get their attention so that they turn to look at you, but sometimes in the midst of that despair because their eyes look at you, you can become too intense and achieve the opposite of your goal, avoid these attitudes that keep the boy you like away from you, scare him more than make him want to know you more.
You already have your crush in your sights and you want him to pay attention to you at any cost, but not so fast, you must order your thoughts, calm down, knowing well what you are going to do, it is not only to be behind him so that he does not forget that you exist, if you behave too desperate what you are going to get is that he does not want to know anything about you, so make no mistake.
1. Introduce yourself, but respect his space: When you are willing to introduce yourself or someone else introduces him to you, don’t let nerves and emotion win you over, don’t want to hug him or kiss him on the first contact, you must respect his space , with a handshake and maybe a kiss on the cheek will be enough, you don’t want to go any further, keep a little distance.
2. Do not torment him with messages: If you already have his phone number and added it to WhatsApp, then do not send him messages every moment, every hour, send him a hello, but if he does not respond promptly, do not send him another Wait until he has time to answer you, take care what emojis you send him, you don’t have to see yourself so launched if you barely know each other.
3. Do not want others to see them together : In your eagerness to want something formal with him, in a public place you may be encouraged to hug him, take him by the arm or caress him, even kiss him, if you do, you could make him uncomfortable and confuse him, you should give him their time and not wanting to treat you so affectionate also when they are just in the plan of friends, give time to things.
4. Jealousy does not go : They are nothing, but you already start to be jealous of him, you get angry when he talks to someone else or you start with questions such as "where are you?", "Who are you with?", Because he will think that if they are still nothing and you become like that, which will be when they already have something serious, without a doubt they will want to run from your side, you must recognize the limits.
5. Talk to him about what you feel, but do not make it into a drama: You can tell him everything you feel for him, that you like him, that you would like to have something serious like a relationship, but do not say things like "I am obsessed with you", "If you don’t listen to me, everything ends", remember that what grows between you must be love, not dependence.
6. Do not be his shadow: If you know that he is going to a friends party, do not get to go too just so you do not lose sight of him, that all the time you are behind him, it can seem quite uncomfortable, just give him his space, treat him well, give him confidence from now on and you will see that alone he will know how to appreciate how much you adore him and will also begin to accept his feelings for you.