Nobody can make you lose your dignity, except that person that you love with all your might and with whom you dream a whole life, however, that you cannot allow.
You can be a very focused woman, have in mind and well planned what you want and what not, but when a person who conquers you arrives, that affection can destabilize and confuse you, that’s why some lovers mention that love can blind you However, as much as you adore him, do not trample on your dignity just by not letting go of those who do not love you.
When you fall deeply in love, you are willing to do your best to make everything work, you can even soften your character, ignore certain details in order not to conflict and argue, you can say goodbye to that pride that you said you would never lose , but do not trample on your dignity just not to let go of those who do not love you with the same intensity as you.
You just have to be aware that the absence of dignity does not ensure you get the love you are waiting for from that person that you visualize as the great man of your life, with whom you want to live a world full of good times and that you hope he does not have. eyes for no one else, so don’t lose it, don’t throw it to the ground, defend it and it will keep you on your feet.
When you fall in love, that person must also love you with the same intensity, with the same forces, with the same desire, everything must be mutual for it to work, because otherwise the efforts will have been useless, when there is really interest to move forward that love that unites them, then both show it with actions and giving the best of themselves.
If you have to work on these defects so that it does not affect your relationship, it is done and they are not justified under a "that’s how I am, that’s how you met me and that’s how you accepted me", but neither is forced to change tastes, friendships or sacrifice happiness of one only for not losing or not letting that person leave your side, everything must be achieved in a mutual balance and well-being for both.
Yes, it is great to love a person strongly, consider that you have finally found your soulmate and be enthusiastic about giving everything you carry in your heart and soul in order to see him happy, but would you be willing to lose your dignity with so that he does not leave your side? Losing your dignity is a symptom of low self-esteem, if you don’t love yourself, you can’t say that you adore someone else.
In a relationship, everything must be mutual, but if that man already told you that love disappeared through the window and that he no longer wants to be with you, that he has set his eyes on anyone else or that he is already tired of sharing time by your side, then let him go free, keeping him is not a show of unconditional love, but quite the opposite, it is to demonstrate your lack of self-love.
It hurts a lot to realize that that man with whom you imagined your life no longer loves you, hearing him say that he no longer feels that spark as he used to for you, deeply wounds your heart leaving wounds, but you have to be strong and try For forgetting what one feels to remember what you are worth, do not beg him for crumbs of his attention, your dignity should not be lost by anyone, love is not begged or begged. It is true that a love should not be let go out of pride, but it should be let go out of dignity!