The sacrifices we make when having a relationship or simply when we love someone, are sometimes so great that we exceed limits.
When is it time to say " I’ve come this far with this person "? Because sometimes we believe that what we do is going in the right direction, that no matter how great a sacrifice is made, it is for love and is valid, when in those same times, we leave something that no one asked us to sacrifice: dignity.
When loving someone unconditionally, sometimes we do not know how far the term "unconditionally" goes, we take it for granted that it is infinite, when it is necessary to set certain limits even in the way of loving someone, because at certain times we can lose ourselves, not borrow Pay attention to how much what is happening hurts us.
Do you love that man unconditionally? Enough to put up with things that hurt you? "It’s going to change," most say, justifying a relationship in which only one person gives and receives nothing in return, and when it comes to an end, that same person will tell you that they never asked for so much sacrifice and in part they have reason.
When we are in love with someone, many of us give more than we should, selflessly, we were told that it should be so, but even in a relationship that is almost perfect, there must be limits between what we are willing to give and what we should receive reciprocally, it is part of this agreement called love.
By loving in excess we can fall into a spiral in which the only thing we sacrifice more than is dignity , we lose ourselves in a love that is not reciprocal, is toxic and does us more harm than good, in the end we have by our side a person who sees us as an ornament, but who no longer has any connection with us.
You should not feel guilty, loving with all your strength is not bad, because at the end of the day that is what you are, a person who loves with all your heart, but be careful, set limits on the other side where they are not responding as you do. you deserve, trying to understand what is happening is a situation of total exhaustion.
Trying to understand a person who is hurting you is not enough, because there is no justification for this evil, if despite everything you love him without limits, do you now see the importance of delimiting? Do it, love conscientiously and yes from the bottom of your heart but without losing yourself along the way and on the way to your dignity.