Sometimes they are not due to their own experiences, but many people have fears when they are in a relationship which generate common restlessness and insecurities
There are wonderful moments that arise after taking risks in love, even so, couples have many fears in common which are not a statistic that happens but, they generate restlessness.
The problem with the fears of couples is that they do destroy a relationship , there are those who do not know how to cope with them and possibly they appear momentarily.
In a lasting relationship, not everything is pink nor everything is black, there is a scale and the couple’s fears go within it, everyone has them.
We may come to see a flaw in others but it may actually be a reflection of our insecurities.
Our day-to-day panorama changes, we can adopt couple fears precisely when we see what happens to others, even so each head is a world and each relationship also, as the saying goes, nobody experiences someone else’s head.
Among the fears that arise in couples is precisely the fear of feeling trapped, overwhelmed , the key to success in relationships is that each person must have freedom without leaving out the commitment they have, if there is trust, things flow without problem.
How many times do we face situations where that decision will mark our life and precisely that is a fear of a couple, making mistakes, failing and ruining what you previously had another panorama of, if you face an error get the best of what is learning you will see how then it no longer happens, it remains a less unpleasant experience.
Among the most difficult words to say this, sorry, I love you, I love you or I no longer love you , people are afraid to express since there are those who feel vulnerable when expressing themselves, saying that generates changes for better or for worse, more if it was not at the time or with the right partner.
Among couples a recurring fear is to feel cheated, to realize that they have been lied to, discover a betrayal and yes also an infidelity, when this happens we are filled with doubts and although for a long time we think what you would do if it happened we will never know until this happens.
The couple’s fears are inside and outside of intimacy , it is in that there is a rejection or that there is something that one does not like about the other, these types of situations are overcome when there is communication.
And if something that afflicts many is the fear of being alone, actually when one learns to be happy in solitude these types of fears disappear, having security and self-confidence is what will make there less fears in the relationship.
They are conventional things, there are those who start without any of these expressions but they change with the passage of time, when in doubt stop and resolve since when fears creep it becomes increasingly difficult to overcome them.