You see your unfaithful ex-partner, What are you doing? Do you greet him? Do you ignore him? Do you smile at him or do you start to feel angry? Did you already forgive her?
Nobody said it would be easy to forgive, many men go through life pretending to be strong, those who do not cry and those who easily forget a woman, however the statistics show that they do NOT forget so quickly.
If they were unfaithful to a man , this is one of the events that marks him for the rest of his life, since they experience negative emotions that, even though they are already in the past, consume them every moment that memories appear.
Forgive if you can, and there are certain attitudes, facts and signs that show it, In a Relationship explains some of these actions that men do when they have managed to take infidelity as a life lesson.
Have you forgiven your ex?
There are those who want to deceive themselves, telling their friends, their family that they have already forgiven her and that he is happy to continue with his life, but it turns out that at the first opportunity, he begins to speak ill of his ex-partner, you can see his courage , the hatred, but in the end he says "She is already past and I continue happy with my life."
Even those who repeat a lot that they have already forgiven her, chances are high that they have NOT forgiven. They say it just to look good, like the good person that he is, but behind the scenes their emotions are still altered.
He has not forgiven her:
- If that man even thinks about his ex-partner causes a stomach ache
- When you see her with another person, you feel like attacking her
- No positive thoughts about her
- Even in his dreams he continues to claim infidelity
- In conversations with her best friends, you speak ill of her and wish her bad.
- Time of infidelity has passed and he continues to play the victim with his friends and family.
- He longs for her to come and ask for forgiveness in front of everyone to show the world that it was her fault.
- He keeps looking for it on his social networks, to see how bad or good he has done.
When you have already forgiven:
- In the morning he no longer wakes up crying for her betrayal
- It is no longer the point of conversation with your friends
- She does not feel that she hates her, rather she has understood that people change and that it is part of life that mistakes are made.
- You have recovered and says thanks to his will and his therapist
- He is a person who if he sees her, could even wish him personally that he has a good life.
- She does not stalk her social networks, she blocked her and you are no longer interested in knowing more about her life.
- He is honest with himself and knows that he also failed in some things in the relationship.
- He knows that in life he will receive many more powerful lessons that will make him be a better person.