"You’re already sitting back watching TV", and that was enough to start a discussion.
My wife and I got married when we were 21 years old, she is a woman who was always noted to have a strong character , for a long time I never thought that that same character would separate me from her.
At home we both contributed, but suddenly one day he said to me repeatedly : "How are you arriving later every day?" That got me thinking, I hadn’t really realized that I was late, and late I mean with a maximum of 20 minutes.
Another day I left thinking about what my wife told me. Just when I got off work I decided to go have a beer, I called him and said love, I’ll be late I’m going to have a beer. She told me that if she sent me only I would take it as a joke.
When I got home, my wife had already changed the plate on the door, I called him to open it and he went out to make me a hot dog because he told me that he was not sending me alone, it was just with that action that I took action on the matter .
I started observing her and she really got upset about everything, if I turned on the TV, if I opened the refrigerator, or if I went to bed early or if I went to bed late.
I spoke with her and told her to go to a therapy that it was obvious that something was happening with her, but that I was not a fortune teller, what’s up love? I asked her countless times.
She always told me that I was crazy and that I should understand her more , so I opted one day not to do anything that bothered her, I didn’t watch TV, didn’t open the refrigerator, I had to hurry to the bathroom, because she was scolding me if he spilled too much water.
Suddenly I saw myself as a zombie, obeying my wife’s orders, I no longer went out with friends, I felt caged, until one day a friend called me and I left knowing the scandal that my wife was going to make me.
At the bar I talked to my friend, and he said: "What a fucking idea they have of marriage", friend, a relationship should be based on freedom, respect and love, she doesn’t have to define what it is or what you can or not to do.
Besides, those are nonsense, that by repeating them every day you will end up divorcing you friend! That echoed in me, it was like the door that I needed to open for me to feel good about myself again.
Although I was very sorry to leave her for my son, so far it has been my best decision , I have already married again and she has about 4 couples who have left her for the same thing, the worst of the case is that she does not want to go to therapy.
I am aware of my son, he is old and understands things. Many believe that I left my wife, for my current partner, but the truth is that I left her because she fed me up, I was never unfaithful to her, only that I stopped being her slave.
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