The history of a person in their old relationships can tell you a lot about how they will be in their relationship, a past infidelity reveals a lot
First we must ask you something , how well do you know your partner? If he has told you that he was ever unfaithful to his ex, or if he even broke up with her because he cheated on her with you, there is something you should know before continuing with your relationship, there is a chance that history will repeat itself, but now it will be you the affected one.
Experts warn that a relationship that is born from infidelity, has a base of instability that is based on continuous doubt, something similar happens with couples who know that they were unfaithful to their ex, there is a possibility that that person cheats on you with someone else, but it is the same as if you met someone who has never committed an infidelity.
Infidelity in a person is like flipping a coin, you never know when it could happen , if you are going to find out and how you are going to react, although it is true that there could be a pattern of behavior in which that man repeats His infidelity, now being you the victim, also tells us that that person does not love anyone but himself.
Now, if he was brave enough to confess his past to you or in the event that it was with you and you know the whole story, it could be that this person fell in love with you , unexpectedly and just when he was in a relationship, you would be in front of someone that he made a mistake, but of course he could not repeat it.
This is when experts advise not to judge your partner for his past, because that past may do more harm to you than to that person, because all the time you will distrust him, you will be worried that you could be prey to jealous behavior or Be the one who turns the relationship toxic.
There is no absolute certainty that your partner is going to be unfaithful to you, but it is not a reason for you to become a shadow , you will hurt yourself more if all the time the question of whether he is with another or if he is where he told you he would be, ask him two questions with which you can calm that anxiety you feel when he is not with you.
The first question is, are you happy with me? Because if he doesn’t answer you, he’s hiding something very serious; and the other question is do you feel tied to my side? Both questions will help you calm down or make a forceful decision about your partner and their future in the relationship they are building.