"Your father is good for nothing", this is one of the phrases we hear most from people who get angry with their partner and finish off their children. NO, never speak ill of their father to your children because you harm them all their life
"Your father is an Inuit", "You seem lazy to your father", "You will not see your father if he does not deposit the money I asked for". These are strong, crude phrases that some women use to blackmail, or pressure. They do not measure the consequences, that when speaking ill of his father causes psychological damage and many of them irreversible. Today’s advice is that NEVER, no matter how devastated you are, should you speak badly about his father to your son. Do not do it!.
When it comes to children, you must be especially careful when talking about your ex, no matter how bad you have been with him, you do not have the right to speak badly to your son about his father or mother, it is important That you be aware of what is happening so that you do not damage their present or their future emotionally speaking.
Sometimes relationships end and the children are the ones who suffer the most, they realize everything, and it is possible that they feel alone, unprotected when they see that their family has disintegrated. That is why parents are recommended to always protect them and if they can attend therapies much better.
"Your father is good for nothing" , this is one of the phrases we hear most from people who get angry with their partner and finish off their children. People who tell their children how bad their parents are end up psychologically damaged. Remember that what they think the most about why their father or mother left the house and if you come up with stories where you speak badly of their father, this can trigger unnecessary hatred in the child.
A son who lives the experience of his parents separating, suffer too much so that on top of all that, his mother poisons his soul with inappropriate comments by speaking ill of his father. Children will always want to see their parents united. That is why the ideal is to talk with your children to explain to them in a healthy and patient way the situation that you live with their father.
If the intervention of a specialist is necessary, do it, there will come a time when the child grows up and realizes what happened, and that you acted maturely, remember that they record everything in their mind, what better way than to leave them beautiful memories. Another advice that specialists offer to have that mental harmony is that you can channel your pain by taking therapy.
Never speak badly to your son of his father, do not pass your fears, your hatred and your anger, it is not worth it, better focus on making your son happy, only in this way is that your son will be happy without you you express badly neither of his father or of the family of his father.