Not because you are pregnant will you lose your masculinity. This person is expecting twins and hopes to breastfeed them
His name is Alejandro Rubey, he is pregnant, expecting twins and says he is ready to breastfeed his children, he identifies as a man and has a degree in Biological Sciences, his residence is in Puerto Madryn. " They gave me maternity leave , but I’m going to be a dad" he mentions in an interview they conducted with him in the Infobae newspaper.
Alejandro is convinced that nothing that is happening to him has to affect his masculine side, that although it is true, he is gestating twins because his nature is that he can give birth, but he identifies as a man and that is how he sees it.
In the images that are shared of Alejandro, he could be seen with short hair, with a short beard and with a good attitude towards what he is experiencing at the moment. The young man is 31 years old and is 33 weeks pregnant, it will be in August that he will give birth to his twins.
He is a trans man and is dedicated to teaching. His case has drawn a lot of attention, since it has divided opinions. Who defines himself as a man now wants to give birth vaginally and breastfeed his children, since he has not removed the breasts.
“When I go back to the photos of my childhood, I realize that I was able to connect a lot with who I wanted to be. I see the photos and I say ‘look, there was that child even if they called him by a woman’s name’.
Alejandro Rubey narrates how his childhood was and the drama he experienced as an only child.
"It was quite a drama," he remembers now. I was 15 years old, an only child, “and I felt like I was hurting someone very important to me. So from that moment on I put aside everything that happened to me and tried to feminize myself as much as I could. Why? How?.
It was not easy in her time, since the heteronorm marked that as a girl she should like boys. “So I went through several super frustrated relationships with men. Obviously, it didn’t go very well for me, it was a very ugly time in my life, very distressing."
“I first reconnected with that masculine gender expression that I had had in childhood. I liked girls, I had always liked them, and now I did tell my mother about it again, but from another place. She was no longer a teenager, but an autonomous person who was not depending on her mother to survive.
He also explained to Infobae that he had romantic relationships with women and that at first he identified as a lesbian, but that people perceived him as a man, something that did not displease him at all.
“However, many people who did not know me read me as a male. The crazy thing was that it didn’t bother me, the same thing that had happened to me in childhood. Then the idea of starting a family and being a mother came to her, but with her perception of being a man. It seemed complicated, but nothing that could not be specified.
"I wanted to start my family, but it never occurred to me to think about gestating, precisely because I associated it with the idea of being a woman," she retraces. “I was trying to appropriate my masculine identity and make it a total and absolute part of my life, I was injecting myself with testosterone. It did not fit me even by chance that you could be a man and be pregnant, on the contrary, I felt that it was going to be to the detriment of my masculinity.