Playing with a person’s feelings is something so harmful and damaging that it can cause irreversible psychological damage, you don’t play with who really loves you
Love is the most beautiful feeling that human beings can experience, when a person has found his other half, he feels that nothing is missing and that he has won the lottery, even in the short and long term plans are not contemplated. complicated situations, since all the bad or difficult things that may arise along the way are blocked.
It does not matter if you are married or having a girlfriend, infidelity hurts in the same way, first of all, because that person who you considered ideal and perfect for your life and to whom you gave all the confidence has betrayed you, and you do not know for sure why What, well, you think that you have done everything you can to make the relationship perfect.
It must be made clear that when a person is unfaithful, the problem is not with the partner, if not he or she, many women tend to blame the "other" for having gotten into their relationship, when in fact who should set a limit and behaving, he was the unfaithful, and on the other hand, there is that bad habit of wanting to know all the details of the infidelity, without being aware that the mere fact that they have been unfaithful has already generated psychological damage such as the following, as well that stops adding fuel to the fire, that you were not to blame:
Guilt: The person who is the victim of infidelity believes that he has committed a fault, and for this reason he blames himself for not having given something that his partner needed, specifically they refer to intimacy, and in that way they justify that the person is unfaithful "with reason" , in addition, all the defects for which a person can be rejected emerge, such as fat, menopause or lack of desire, all these feelings and according to a study carried out by Rosie Shrout of the University of Nevada explains it from the Following way:
As we expected, people who experienced greater psychological and emotional stress after being victims of infidelity were committed to a greater number of risky behaviors. They were more likely to eat less or not eat at all, use alcohol or marijuana more often, have sex under the influence of drugs or alcohol, or exercise excessively.
Anxiety: At a psychological level, anxiety manifests itself through symptoms such as excessive worry, feeling of going crazy, feeling overwhelmed, loss of self-confidence, mental blocks, desire to flee, to disappear, persistent negative thoughts, fears and phobias, depersonalization, feelings of emptiness and strangeness, and difficulty making decisions.
Depression: The person who is a victim of infidelity renounces affection, and even emotions. It builds an irrational and dysfunctional belief according to which, if it is not involved, nothing can happen to it, this depression can last for years, in this sense, "the symptomatic axis moves from sadness to inhibition, to loss of initiative", In fact, there are many people who, as is popularly said, do not start rebuilding their lives ”.
Low self-esteem: Low self-esteem in people who are victims of infidelity comes from the loss of confidence in themselves and in their abilities, they feel insecure, and in many cases they abandon those activities that were part of their life, even many of them due to shame and humiliation distort self-image.
Shame: The person is stressed by what others will think of them, feels guilty, failed and tends to hide, infidelity is experienced as a humiliation not only private but public.