These are some reasons why your ex partner is not resigned to the fact that their relationship is over and continues to be interested in everything you do
Forgetting and getting over a person who was important to you is not an easy thing and in the process you cry , suffer and refuse to say goodbye. That is why one of the most frequent things is to talk and ask about that being whom you cannot remove from your heart and mind.
Surely friends, acquaintances or relatives have told you that your ex-partner keeps asking about you. You may be intrigued, however you must bear in mind that sometimes it is difficult to let go of that person with whom you imagined a beautiful future. We must take into account that it is normal for relationships to complete their cycle and come to an end.
It is not overnight that the interest we had for that person with whom we thought would be with us all our lives ends and each one decides to go our separate ways. However, whether you or the other person has decided to end the relationship, we will always be interested in the other, even if we are sure that we can no longer be together. This is usually one of the reasons your ex keeps asking about you.
It’s jealousy @: If your ex did not want to end the relationship and it was you who made the decision to end, it is most likely that on his part there is still a lot of love, without forgetting that his pride is also hurt, therefore he will feel courage and pain to see you with another person.
Or else, you will want to be told when you ask that you are free, you are not happy and you may want to return. Sometimes, even if he no longer loves you, he will have the desire to know what you are doing simply because of the desire to "belong". Especially in the case of men who are quite territorial.
There is still love: If it was you who put an end to it, it is normal for your ex to ask about you, either out of jealousy, wanting to know if there is already someone who occupies your heart or if you are suffering as much as he / she.
It is normal that there is a period of mourning and adaptation to the new state, after all that end was not in your plans and perhaps you will need many answers to understand what is happening. In case he is still in love, he will continue to investigate your every move.
He does not know how to be alone: Many people find it difficult to let go, they simply cannot let go and it is very difficult for them to abandon the routine to which they were already accustomed. It will be normal that he wants to know if there is an opportunity to return or that he needs to know what it is you do to fill his spaces of solitude.
He will send you messages and call you, but only because they were activities he did when they were a couple. It will take a lot of work for him to abandon everything he did when he was by your side.
He wants to return: Hope dies last in these cases. You want to know if there is an opportunity to resume the relationship. It may be that knowing everything, absolutely everything that you do and what you are up to will help you carry out your plans for a second part.
In general, he will ask things that you will not tell everyone around you, more intimate questions and you may even come across him "by chance."
Competition: It may seem too immature to you, but there is a very great possibility that a battle will begin to show who is happier now, if you already have a partner or will want to know who of the two has been able to overcome this situation in the best way.
You will be curious to know who the separation suited you best. Of course this is a sign of immaturity, childishness, a defense mechanism to repair your ego.