Sometimes we rush into choosing the man with whom we want a relationship, very late we realize that he was not the right one because he does not value us
In love there is no rush, although sometimes we believe that there is and we make wrong decisions along the way, we choose a person who at first sight seems the right one, it is an instinct disguised as a need, we want someone to love us, even if it is for a few days and then we’ll see
The question of choosing a partner must be made aware that you want someone who loves you unconditionally, respects you and supports you through thick and thin and is committed to you, it sounds like a lot to ask, but remember that you deserve the best in the world and in matters of love you should not settle.
You don’t have a race to win with anyone, so wait for that man who makes you feel beautiful and valuable , don’t choose the first one who sweetens your ear, they are the ones who are least committed and only want you for their fun, bet on someone that you really deserve, know how to love you and make you happy.
In our urgency to feel loved, we fall into the wrong arms , we tell ourselves that it will change, that everything will be fixed when he realizes the person you are and sometimes it happens, the man does end up falling in love with you, but when it doesn’t happen, we feel frustrated and with a big void.
That man who did not know how to value you, did not know how to love the beautiful woman that you are both inside and out, surely you realized that he does not even remember your birthday or what you told him yesterday and that is just when you heart breaks and disappointment grows with someone you gave your love to unconditionally.
You are not naive, nor is it your fault , it is he who did not know who he was with, a person who loved him very much, who gives a special meaning to their relationship, who was willing to do anything to make him happy, but don’t worry, sometimes, very often, that man regrets not realizing it.
In love, do not rush, take your time to choose a partner who is what you deserve: a person who loves you the same or more than you love her, who supports each other, who has emotional responsibility, who takes care of each other and that they grow as people, that person is the one for you, do not settle or stay with less.