Sometimes the couple has quite subtle strategies for us to access all their desires without us realizing it.
When we think of a controlling person, we quickly believe that they are someone who forbids us things, watches our every move and wants us to do what they want, and although this is true, there is also another type of control, which we often do not notice.
And that sometimes it is usually more painful and dangerous than the one that is more visible. Sometimes you are controlled without knowing it . When does this occur? when our partner has enormous power over us, which we give him for the simple fact that we love him.
Sometimes, when we give ourselves with all our heart, we allow the other person to have the reins of the relationship and when we least expect it, we end up agreeing to all their wishes, which in the end ends up defining each one of our activities and, in the worst case, the control of our life.
In case it is your partner who decides when and where they can see each other, they are controlling you, if you always agree to their wishes, and they impose their will all the time, this is a type of control that is rarely seen as such.
He may not tell you what to do, but at the end of the day the result is the same, you end up agreeing to his every wish. Remember that a relationship is the union of two people and both must be heard.
If you feel that you have no voice or vote, that you are not heard and that what you want is almost never or never done, you are in a relationship where you are not valued, loved and much less respected.
He who does not speak, God does not hear him, so it is time for you to tell your partner how you feel, only in this way can both of you be satisfied with living together.