Settling for a half love, also speaks of the little self-esteem we have, do not aspire to incomplete love, look for something exceptional
We all fantasize about finding that true love , spectacular, with everything and butterflies in our stomachs, many believe that it does not exist, that we will never find it, that we were born to accept half loves, what they do not know is that it depends a lot on us to find to the good one, the one that will make us happy.
When we start or look for a relationship, it happens that factors such as our self-esteem, the security of what we want and our love past come to influence how we accept a partner , if we settle for the first one who speaks nicely to us, or we are more demanding.
If we opt for the first, we leave our happiness to chance or in the hands of the other person, we may even come to love him with our eyes closed, without seeing defects, deceptions or other issues that later, when we discover them, hurt us deeply, unprepared to overcome that blow.
But if we are aware of our value, we will easily understand that we deserve someone who looks at us as if we were his wish fulfilled , who respects us, gives us that value that we know we have and above all, who loves us unconditionally, just as we are, as we deserve to be loved.
Sometimes, people forget to love themselves and look for someone to give them that love that they lack, they relate to the first person who promises them that feeling that generates an emptiness, but sometimes it happens that it is just the person who we were looking for, the one that completes us and even makes us love ourselves, is that man who sees us as if we were his everything.
Other times it happens that we meet someone who simply does not know how to love us , tries, but finally fails in the attempt, leaves us like that or hurts us in the attempt, breaks our hearts, that person does not see you as that child he sees his presents, on Christmas morning, under his tree.
In any of the cases, what you must keep in mind is your value, conformism in relationships is something that sooner or later, we end up paying, never settle for the leftovers of a half love , when you deserve someone to look at you as if you were his dream come true.