From love to obsession there is also only one step and you have to learn to control it, otherwise you end up destroying yourself and also the other person, be it your partner or that person you like, but who does not want anything with you.
Just as they say that from hatred to love there is only one step, it is also from a healthy infatuation to one out of control, when love becomes an obsession you destroy everything , it is not good for anyone who behaves like this, or for whom you are receiving it, that is why you must be very aware of those feelings that you are having and presenting.
Loving is one of the most beautiful feelings , giving the best of yourself to a person, feeling reciprocated, but when love becomes an obsession, you destroy everything and end up breaking with all the beautiful moments that had been built, that’s why always You must have with you the dignity and respect for yourself to be able to leave on time if necessary.
Love and obsession can appear whether they are a couple or in someone that you like very much, but that does not correspond to you, even in an ex-boyfriend, when that romanticism turns into something sick, that is when you should worry and turn on the alarms, because you are not doing things well and you will only get them to seek to flee from you at any cost.
Love is that feeling that makes you want to share everything with that special person that makes you feel what no one ever does, to whom you want to give the best version of yourself, your time, your caresses, your attentions, but an obsessive or sick love, It is that state in which that love is combined with the extreme need to be reciprocated in the same way, even if the other person does not want to,
And it is that this obsessive love can occur both in a formal relationship, as well as on that person who is nothing and only likes you; Within the couple it appears wanting that person only make his world revolve around you, that he forget his surroundings and only have eyes, ears and thoughts for you, wanting to move him away from the outside world, a way to control him.
As soon as you are obsessive about someone you only like, it is when you are in love with your so-called "crush", but that person has no interest in you, then you want to force him to turn to see you as something else, you do everything to To achieve it, that can be too uncomfortable for him and too degrading for you, you must value yourself, if he does not love you, there will be someone who will do it and without you begging "love me, please".
Also this obsessive love can occur with exes, when you do not want to accept that the other person no longer wants anything with you, closed that cycle and you insist that he still loves you, as if you could read his mind, call him and send him messages desperately He does not answer you, but you insist, you look for him everywhere, you ruin possible conquests for him, you end up becoming his shadow.
That your love does not become a simple whim, when they already told you that they do not want anything with you, it is because in truth they no longer feel anything for you, take it with maturity and do not see it as a challenge to see who wins, do not infatuation, because then where do your dignity and your value lie? With that behavior you destroy yourself and you destroy yourself.
Remember that love is not 50-50, it is a 100-100, that is, the two must be committed to the same level, if one of the two is not willing to do that, then withdraw and do not obsess over forcing him to love you , love is not forced, stop insisting, stop looking for it, respect yourself and the other person.