When you are unfaithful you must remember that it is just an adventure, something temporary that you will enjoy for a moment, but the damage you cause to those who love you will be forever.
An infidelity can end everything beautiful that has been built in courtship, in marriage and in the family, and that is that when you are unfaithful you must remember that the pleasure will be temporary, it is just an adventure that was presented to live it, but the The pain of those who love and trust you will be eternal, the pedestal where they had placed you as an exemplary man will be broken.
When you are unfaithful you are not making a mistake, you are doing something that you have already decided and that you know perfectly well will have consequences, but you still decide to take the risk and throw the coin in the air knowing that it is only a pleasure that will be temporary, but the pain that causes in the people who love you when they discover your disloyalty, it will be eternal and they will never forget it.
By being unfaithful you have so little to gain, but much to lose, although at the moment you do not realize the serious mistake you are making, however you are wasting so many years, so much sincere affection, so much trust that was placed in you and by the way your honor will be on the ground, always reflect on the consequences that your disloyalty will bring and think if it is worth playing the traitor.
Infidelity is a decision that is made knowing everything that it entails, from betraying someone you know who loves you unconditionally and who believes in you, it is committed taking into account that if they discover it then their partner will suffer, not There’s no excuse, it’s not worth saying "I didn’t know what I was doing" or "it was a mistake, sorry", because that won’t fix anything.
When you are unfaithful you are only getting entangled in something temporary, that will give you pleasure for a few hours, for one night, but that there will be nothing else, there is no love, it is someone that perhaps you do not even know or do not know enough about her, who would not move a single finger for you if they discover you, it is something that ends in a fleeting way, that gives you fun and adrenaline only for moments.
But to your girlfriend, wife or children, when they discover you being unfaithful, you cause them pain that will be eternal and that does not easily heal the wound, you leave your girlfriend with insecurities, with traumas and it will be very difficult for her to trust another again. man, because the same thing that happened with you will not want to happen again, that he gave you his heart and you did not mind changing it for a wasteful night.
If you betray your wife, you cause her great pain, because she gave you a lot of love, she showed you that she really wanted to be with you, that she adored you and you were her world, she supported you in your worst moments and she could even have given up her dreams to be able to fulfill yours and be there when you needed her most, she trusted you blindly and you paid her with the worst of coins.
When there are children involved, they are also caused enormous suffering knowing that dad has betrayed them, not only have you cheated on their mother, you also failed them and you will fall from the pedestal on which they had you, how to explain to them that while they They were waiting at home to live with the family, you were with someone else without caring about anything else at that time.
So infidelity is only pleasant at the moment, but it causes all damage and a very strong emotional destabilization in the couple, in the family, that’s why you have to think twice before giving in to the temptation of being disloyal to love, respect and confidence that those who love you, are giving you and corresponding.