Through a video on Tik Tok Britanny Baxter expressed that her in-laws will only be able to kiss and hug their 2-year-old daughter if the little girl wants to, they must ask her permission
The desire of all mothers is to take care of their children from everything, illnesses one of these things, that is why some took the side of a woman who has forbidden her in-laws to kiss her daughter, especially if the little girl does not wants it.
Everyone talks about the story of a woman who has forbidden her in-laws to kiss her daughter without her consent and the video has gone viral on Tik Tok . The concerned mother, named Brittany Baxter has explained her powerful reasons in the clip.
The Australian is one hundred percent sure that no one has the right to hug and kiss her daughter, under two years of age, without her having given her permission first.
As a mother, I practice consent with my daughter and this is something that has really been bothering me.
In the video of this woman that has gone viral, she questioned: "Can we begin to normalize the fact that children do not have to kiss adults?", He mentioned. On the other hand, the mother said annoyed by the fact that her in-laws have not wanted to respect the decisions of the girl, kissing her anyway.
And is that when the little girl says no, they ask: "What do we have to ask you for a kiss and a hug?", Despite the fact that the mother has explained it to them on many occasions.
The worst thing for the woman is that the men proceed to hug her and kiss her, going beyond the limits of her body anyway, but not before using manipulation saying that the girl is hurting her feelings.
My daughter’s body does not exist so that no one feels more comfortable and loved
Britanny Baxter argued that it is neither her fault nor her daughter’s fault that the older generation did not take the time to learn how to regulate their emotions.
Nobody’s feelings will be more important than my daughter’s right to decide her own body. You don’t have to sacrifice your limits in order to ease the discomfort of others
On the other hand, Ursula Wagner, from the FamilyWorks social organization, in New Zealand, which assured that forcing children to kiss and hug adults, is sending them the wrong message. This, because they will think that there are situations in which they will not be able to decide what to do with their body.
To end this controversial message, Britanny Baxter stressed that she will not allow her daughter to grow up in an environment where she cannot say "no".