Do not settle for any type of love, you have to find the one that is tailored to you, the one that is mutual and that is willing to give you everything that you will also offer.
You are and you deserve a lot, that’s why when you’re looking for your better half, don’t settle for just anyone and not the first one that promises you the Moon and the stars, you don’t need any kind of love and you can’t settle for whoever, you deserve a healthy and free love that is willing to give itself completely to you, that everything between you is mutual and fits perfectly.
This search for a soulmate is not easy at all, and sometimes there are many candidates that you have surrendered at your feet, but none of them interests you because you know that they do not have what you are looking for, and you do not need any type of love or the one that only comes in words, but not in deeds, you deserve a healthy and free love, let it be that piece that complements you.
You are not for anyone, nor for the first one who comes to tell you that he will give you everything by the handful without showing you anything, nor are you for a mediocre love that only loves you at times and in its own way, do not settle for the one who does not explode with affection for you because he says that being cheesy or very romantic is not his thing, and that he makes you feel bad or less with his words using as an excuse that this is his way of worshiping.
Don’t take refuge in just anyone and don’t accept a half love in order to get out of single life or to give others the pleasure of seeing you with someone else, stop tormenting yourself with the idea that the train is going to go away, that you will stay to dress Santos, forget that your cousins, sisters or friends are already in a stable relationship, while you still haven’t found your prince charming.
All in due time, while you are single, work on yourself and on your self-esteem, raise your standards for that person who wants to be with you, make it your goal not to accept less than you deserve, nor less than what you are willing to offer inside of a couple relationship, you are no longer for games, to waste time with someone who does not know what he wants or for whom one day he says yes and the next no.
That time of enduring the remains of love and lack of interest hidden behind a "that’s my way of loving you" is over, you deserve a love that doesn’t have another person in its heart, you deserve a love that loves you alone to you, who is afraid of losing you because he knows that like you he will never find anyone else, a love that takes care of you, that values you.
You deserve a love that every one who looks into your eyes is convinced that you are the best thing that has happened in life , but above all, you deserve a healthy love that includes respect, trust, empathy, affective responsibility, that recognizes your virtues, but also know your flaws and accept them while you work to correct them and be a better person.
You deserve a love that accepts your limits, that accompanies you, that helps you grow, that is not only in the good moments with you and in your bad moments it disappears minimizing your feelings, you deserve someone who shows you their love in a way in which you understand him and that he doesn’t tell you "that’s how I know how to love" while you are flooded with doubts for not knowing if he loves you or not.